knows that he has much to be grateful for.
He was helped in his struggle by the angels; celestial forces placed each thing in its place, thus allowing him to give his best. That is why, at sunset, he kneels and gives thanks for the Protective Cloak surrounding him.
His companions say: "He's so lucky!" But he knows that "luck" is knowing to look around him and to see where his friends are, because it was through their words that the angels were able to make themselves heard.
(The Zahir by Paulo Coelho)
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7.4.10
4.4.10
9.2.10
7.2.10
Assumptions about other people and ourselves*
Do you know why there are so many screwed-up relationships in
this world? Because people like you and I refuse to communicate is one of the reasons.
We prefer to assume, because it's safer and comfortable for our ego.
When we assume, we make an ass out of u and me.
Instead of spoken and written words, we communicate through songs, art, films; secondary mediums to bring our message across. Because we're afraid of rejection and indifference. It's as if when we are separated by a medium (MSN, Blogs, Irony), then we can rest our minds knowing if our work is rejected, it does not necessary mean we are unlovely. Rather it's piece of work that can be improved on. Self-worth that can be improved on. Can self-worth be improved?
Sometimes we hold back what we want to say, for political correctness, for politeness, to lessen trouble for ourselves. Because why should we bother about others, when they don't seem to give some? We always want that something from others, but we don't want to give the same thing in return. We just don't want our kindness to be taken advantage of, and of course we're just plain greedy and ungrateful. Which in turn makes us self-centered. The need to protect ourselves.
We seek to procure, to dominate, to outdo and outshine. To collect all the items for the next level up, for survival. What is it all for? The very thought of having to let them go inspires fear. The thing which we yearn for most, is the most guarded possession that each one of us has.
The most precious, a privilege for certain people, should be taken care of by its owner. Because no one else can know how to take care of your heart, other than ourselves. We are interdependent of each other, for survival reasons, for companionship, for something special. Without the people around us, we wouldn't be where we are today. Without basic necessities provided by the earth, we would not live. Without our flesh, bones, 70% water, and other components, there would be no body.
There would be no self. So how real is the self? Do we own our bodies? When things start to fall apart, when they no longer have a reason to stay together, how real are the things we have now, when change is the only constant.
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*edited
this world? Because people like you and I refuse to communicate is one of the reasons.
We prefer to assume, because it's safer and comfortable for our ego.
When we assume, we make an ass out of u and me.
Instead of spoken and written words, we communicate through songs, art, films; secondary mediums to bring our message across. Because we're afraid of rejection and indifference. It's as if when we are separated by a medium (MSN, Blogs, Irony), then we can rest our minds knowing if our work is rejected, it does not necessary mean we are unlovely. Rather it's piece of work that can be improved on. Self-worth that can be improved on. Can self-worth be improved?
Sometimes we hold back what we want to say, for political correctness, for politeness, to lessen trouble for ourselves. Because why should we bother about others, when they don't seem to give some? We always want that something from others, but we don't want to give the same thing in return. We just don't want our kindness to be taken advantage of, and of course we're just plain greedy and ungrateful. Which in turn makes us self-centered. The need to protect ourselves.
We seek to procure, to dominate, to outdo and outshine. To collect all the items for the next level up, for survival. What is it all for? The very thought of having to let them go inspires fear. The thing which we yearn for most, is the most guarded possession that each one of us has.
The most precious, a privilege for certain people, should be taken care of by its owner. Because no one else can know how to take care of your heart, other than ourselves. We are interdependent of each other, for survival reasons, for companionship, for something special. Without the people around us, we wouldn't be where we are today. Without basic necessities provided by the earth, we would not live. Without our flesh, bones, 70% water, and other components, there would be no body.
There would be no self. So how real is the self? Do we own our bodies? When things start to fall apart, when they no longer have a reason to stay together, how real are the things we have now, when change is the only constant.
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*edited
6.2.10
I'll never excuse myself
I won't give up my life for you, you or you. Remember that.
Don't use your lack of courage to pursue a meaningful life you want as an excuse. Whatever choice you make is up to you, don't use me as an excuse later on to get what you want; what you didn't dare to go for.
I'll never give it up for anyone.
*I don't expect you to give up your life, so don't be afraid.
Don't use your lack of courage to pursue a meaningful life you want as an excuse. Whatever choice you make is up to you, don't use me as an excuse later on to get what you want; what you didn't dare to go for.
I'll never give it up for anyone.
*I don't expect you to give up your life, so don't be afraid.
5.2.10
人也有
软弱的时候。加油。
"The great advantage of having nothing is that everything becomes a gain. | |
| | Losing everything is at the same time the scariest, as well as the most liberating experience you can have. When you have something, - anything, you've got to protect it from disappearing. And so worry becomes a resident in your heart. When you've got nothing, your heart overflows with gratitude for every offering you receive." |
4.2.10
19.1.10
8.1.10
Learn Learn & Learn
It's tough to learn, but I can't go back, I don't want to go back.
Go foward. No matter how slowly I progress, just don't stop
and give up.
Accept myself, but don't be complacent and always improve
on areas that I'm lacking.
Cease looking elsewhere to acquire, it's right here with me all the time. But don't be complacent and take the good things for granted.
Learn learn and learn.
This year I have a different focus.
Go foward. No matter how slowly I progress, just don't stop
and give up.
Accept myself, but don't be complacent and always improve
on areas that I'm lacking.
Cease looking elsewhere to acquire, it's right here with me all the time. But don't be complacent and take the good things for granted.
Learn learn and learn.
This year I have a different focus.
1.1.10
Susan Boyle: I Dreamed A Dream
She's an inspiration.
She's not just a singer, she's a character we all wish we were.
She's not just a singer, she's a character we all wish we were.
Standing Up For Myself
I have to stand up for myself and for what I want, live my own life, not the expectations of others.
I've had enough. Don't you dare hold me back.
Stop it now. We should be living our own dreams, stop busying yourself with my life.
Stand up for the life you want. You won't regret it.
I've had enough. Don't you dare hold me back.
Stop it now. We should be living our own dreams, stop busying yourself with my life.
Stand up for the life you want. You won't regret it.
31.12.09
Crossing Over to 2010
Year 2009 is different from the previous years.
Strange and magical events happened, as well as damnable ones.
I've never expected the year would pan out like this, but it is for the better.
Tonight by a second's difference the label will change and stay for another year and so on.
I'm going to bed like any other day.
“We must not cease from exploration. And the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we began and to know the place for the first time.”
*edited
Strange and magical events happened, as well as damnable ones.
I've never expected the year would pan out like this, but it is for the better.
Tonight by a second's difference the label will change and stay for another year and so on.
I'm going to bed like any other day.
“We must not cease from exploration. And the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we began and to know the place for the first time.”
*edited
26.12.09
Uncertainty & Regret
The uncertainty to all claims of knowledge.
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Making time for what's important to me.
Or else nothing will happen. I don't like having regrets.
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Making time for what's important to me.
Or else nothing will happen. I don't like having regrets.
25.12.09
It's The Same Soul
It's the same soul, in science and art.
It's the same soul, in different clothes.
It's the same soul, no matter my title.
It's the same soul, with interchangeable extension.
It's the same soul, in different clothes.
It's the same soul, no matter my title.
It's the same soul, with interchangeable extension.
24.12.09
Communication Is Important For Clarity
Never take communication for granted.
Even more so for good communication.
They're not offered often enough.
Strife for clarity through communication as best as I can.
I will keep trying for clarity within myself.
I have to leave the mud pool and stop being a pig.
Tasty pig.
*edited
Even more so for good communication.
They're not offered often enough.
Strife for clarity through communication as best as I can.
I will keep trying for clarity within myself.
I have to leave the mud pool and stop being a pig.
Tasty pig.
*edited
My Dignity
My dignity is important. I will not compromise myself for something I cannot live with.
If nobody can accept my decision, that's a shame for both parties.
Respect, no one can take that from me.
Clarity, stop being a wuss. Don't be afraid or shy to get what I want for my life.
Sacrifice, spend time on activities that are worthwhile, and remember to spend time with people who really care about me, and care for them as well.
My time is precious, and so is everyone's.
It's time to let go of my dead past and move on.
If nobody can accept my decision, that's a shame for both parties.
Respect, no one can take that from me.
Clarity, stop being a wuss. Don't be afraid or shy to get what I want for my life.
Sacrifice, spend time on activities that are worthwhile, and remember to spend time with people who really care about me, and care for them as well.
My time is precious, and so is everyone's.
It's time to let go of my dead past and move on.
12.12.09
The Art of Now: Six Steps to Living in the Moment
"We live in the age of distraction. Yet one of life's sharpest paradoxes is that your brightest future hinges on your ability to pay attention to the present."
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200810/the-art-now-six-steps-living-in-the-moment
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200810/the-art-now-six-steps-living-in-the-moment
11.12.09
It's ok to be a little fatter
The weather is warm, and I get hungry very easily lately. Is that a good sign? Heeee *big grin*
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